Being 69: A Year in the Life of a Fun Old Lesbian – March 21, 2016

Happy day-after-my-birthday to me! I plan to celebrate for the rest of the month because I can! I started the day with a pulmonary test (because that’s what old people do), then lunch with mom, sister Bebe and Aunt Sylvia, then golf with friends, then cards with the Old Farts (mom, Uncle Jack, Aunt Sylvia = 150-ish years total).

I thoroughly enjoyed the day except for one item: my other sister, my youngest sister Bebe, is having a double mastectomy because of a nasty thing in her left breast. Swell. This year started out sucky with Sherry’s passing. Pile it on. We’re tough. If these crappy things are going to happen, let it all be in one year and be over with…


On this day in LGBT history (from QUIST, Lavender Effect, Back2Stonewall, and/or Wikipedia. (If you are unsure about accuracy, please do your research and let me know. Thanks!)

1804 – Napoleonic Code went into effect, one of the earliest codes to permit same-sex activity, France

1987, Finland – Pekka Haavisto, first openly gay member of parliament, took office. He went on to become the first openly gay leader of a major political party (Green, 1992)

1994 – Tom Hanks won best actor Oscar for Philadelphia

2001 – Asexual visibility and education network (AVEN) founded by David Jay

2007 – First national Native AIDS Awareness Day.

2009, Morocco – Ministry of Interior Issued statement on crackdown on homosexuality.


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